Went out to Suntec to meet up with Hong Teck just now.. Really thank God for this brother and his listening ears.. He also told me some stuff that I find to be really useful too..!
One thing that struck me the most is to learn to love myself more.. By that I don't mean those kinda egotistic self-adoration, but more of loving who God created me to be.. With that, I find that I really have to cut myself some slack sometimes.. I go too hard on myself sometimes, which in turn makes me feel lousy about myself, which will make me very defensive or doubt myself too much..
To everything, there will always be a good side and a side that can be improved.. And through the chat-up, we confronted the fact that I'm more of the type that will look at the side that needs to improved more.. I personally have to learn to see the good in things more..
Also, keeping the good things good.. Actually hor.. I'm not so bad de.. I got plenty of good traits.. But I have up till now let the situations around me lead me to think that my good traits are not that great.. What I was advice to do is to keep the good things good, and keep doing them.. And then to isolate the bad or the negative, and tackle them accordingly..
Lastly, I know that I don't really relate that well with the people around my age, but I realised that it isn't completely my fault too.. Its really too bad that our mindsets are different, but whose to say that anyone of us is wrong right? If they want to think like people their age, I can't fault them, cause its only normal.. And really there is also nothing wrong with myself having more foresight than the rest of my peers.. In fact, its a good trait.. So I shouldn't let myself feel so bad about it, and keep this good trait a good trait.. And then to learn to deal with my communication problems with my peers as a separate issue..
Awesome time spent.. Great insights..
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